It’s better to have no one to text than to send him/her a detailed message, and then realize he/she read it twenty minutes ago and still hasn’t sent you a response.
It’s better to sit at home alone on a Friday night watching Netflix than to spend hours getting dressed up, only to have him/her cancel on you at the last second.
It’s better to go out and have fun with your friends on weekends than to wait and see if he/she is going to drunk text you with an invitation to his/her house.
It’s better to get your beauty sleep than to sit up all night, waiting for his/her next text to come through.
It’s better to have no one to daydream about than to chase after someone who is playing the field, keeping his/her eye out for other options, because he/she doesn’t want to settle down yet.
It’s better to focus on your friends and your work than to spend all of your time analyzing the texts he/she sent and the photos he/she uploaded to Instagram.
It’s better to admit that you haven’t found the right person for you yet than to convince yourself that a toxic boy/girl is the boy/girl you’re meant to be with.
It’s better to give yourself the love you need than to give your whole heart to someone who will only meet you halfway.
It’s better to say you’re single than it’s complicated. It’s better to be happy on your own than miserable with someone else.
It’s better to be single than to be in an almost relationship, because almost isn’t enough. You deserve more. You deserve reliability, consistency, love.
You deserve someone who will make plans with you a week in advance, because he/she wants to have time to clean up his/her apartment and plan the perfect date to impress you. Someone who will answer your emergency texts, even if it’s two in the morning and he/she has to wake up for work at six.
You deserve someone who is not only willing, but eager to commit to you. Someone who will dedicate him/herself to you and won’t have any doubt in his/her mind that he’s/she's making the right decision.
You deserve someone who will make you see that you’re worth a text back, you’re worth a relationship label, you’re worth all of his time and attention.
You deserve so much more than an almost. You deserve someone who says what he’s/she's thinking, who gives as much as he/she accepts, who keeps every promise and never disappoints you.
So, until you find a relationship like that, stay single.
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