Beno Jickson

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Beno Jickson

My hometown is Nagercoil. Let me tell you about my family. I'm so much proud to tell you about them. We are a family of 4. I live with my dad, my mom and my small sister. I love all of them so much.
SCHOOL: SLB Govt Hr Sec School, Nagercoil.
College: Info Institute Of Engineering, Coimbatore.
Hobbies: Playing Volleyball, Reading Books, Blogging.

  • Nagercoil, TamilNadu, India.
  • +91 9445208747
  • benok182@gmail.com
  • www.beno3.blogspot.com
Beno

My Professional Skills

I'm currently working as Software Developer in Joyra Systems Private Limited, Nagercoil- 629 001.

HTML 80%
CSS 60%
BOOTSTRAP 60%
JAVASCRIPT 50%

God

God gave us the gift of life; it is up to us to give ourselves the gift of living well.

Family

No family is perfect… we argue, we fight. We even stop talking to each other at times. But in the end, family is family… The love will always be there.

Life

Only I can change my life. No one can do it for me. Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

Love

There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single flashing, throbbing moment.

Friends

A true friend is someone who lets you have total freedom to be yourself - and especially to feel. Or, not feel. Whatever you happen to be feeling at the moment is fine with them. That's what real love amounts to - letting a person be what he/she really is.

Volleyball

Volleyball is 90% Heart, 10% Skill, and 10% Passion. You ALWAYS give 110%!!!! No matter what!

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  • Back To The 90's

    நேரம் இருந்தா இத கொஞ்சம் பாருங்கள் 😍😍😍 
    கோடி ரூபாய் கொடுத்தாலும் இந்த பிறவியில் கிடச்ச இந்த சந்தோஷம் திரும்ப கிடைக்காது....







































  • Live Life With Kind Heart

    Kindly watch this video fully.
    I hope this video will make you think and change your way of living.
    Let's welcome 2021 with Kind Heart.
    Forgive others mistakes. 
    Be kind to everyone.
    Spread love.
    Happy New Year 2021...

    Double click and watch..
  • Undeniable Facts About Life

    1. Your happiness is the biggest punishment to your enemies.
    2. When we return home, the first thing we look for is our mom.
    3. If someone make you forget looking into your phone, believe me, he/she is your best companion.
    4. The walls of hospitals have heard more prayers.
    5. A good book is equal to 100 friends but a good friend is equal to 1000 books.
    6. Life is all about how we see things. Perspective are different, people are not.
    7. Faking a smile is easier than explaining why you are sad.
    8. When you have money in your hand, only you forget who are you but when you not have money in your hand, the whole world forget who you are.
    9. Happiness is not a destination, its a constant choice of every present moment. It doesn't come to you, it comes within you.
    10. Each and every person has some strengths and weaknesses. One who focus on one's strength is called successful & one who focus on one's weaknesses is called failure.
    11. Most of the things you worry about never happen.
    12. Life's best three teachers- Heart-breaks, Empty Pockets & Children.
    13. If you want comfortable journey of life, then reduce the luggage of expectations.
    14. It takes nothing to join the crowd but it takes everything  to stand alone.
    15. Only you are responsible for your happiness.
    16. Great Men are not born great. They become great through honor, discipline & grit.
    17. Anger is a punishment we give ourselves for other's mistakes.
    18. Everybody is trying to find the right person but no one bothers to become the right person.
    19. What hurts you today makes you stronger tomorrow.
    20. Hardest times produce you a greatest gifts.

  • ETIQUETTE

     


    1. Don’t call someone more than twice continuously. If they don’t pick up your call, presume they have something important to attend to.

    2. Return money that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers asking for it  from  you. It shows your integrity and character. Same goes with umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.

    3. Never order the expensive dish on the menu when someone is giving you a lunch/dinner. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.

    4. Don’t ask awkward questions like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ Or why don't you buy a car? For God’s sake it isn’t your problem.

    5. Always open the door for the person coming behind you. It doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl, senior or junior.  You don’t grow small by treating someone well in public.

    6. If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, try paying next time.

    7. Respect different shades of opinions. Remember what's 6 to you will appear 9 to someone facing you. Besides, second opinion is good for an alternative.

    8. Never interrupt people talking. Allow them to pour it out. As they say, hear them all and filter them all.

    9. If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again. It encourages one to do more and it shows how appreciative you're.

    10. Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.

    11. Praise publicly. Criticize privately.

    12. There’s almost never a reason to comment on someone’s weight. Just say, “You look fantastic.” If they want to talk about losing weight, they will.

    13. When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.

    14. If a colleague tells you they have a doctors' appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say "I hope you’re okay". Don’t put them in the uncomfortable position of having to tell you their personal illness. If they want you to know, they'll do so without your inquisitiveness.

    15. Treat the cleaner with the same respect as the CEO. Nobody is impressed at how rude you can treat someone below you but people will notice if you treat them with respect.

    16. If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is rude.

    17. Never give advice until you’re asked.

    18. When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their age and salary.

    19. Mind your  business unless anything involves you directly - just stay out of it.

    20. Remove your sunglasses if you are talking to anyone in the street. It is a sign of respect. More so, eye contact is as important as your speech.

    21. Never talk about your riches in the midst of the poor. Similarly, don't talk about your children in the midst of the barren...or talk about your spouses around those who don't have.

    22. Lastly, Share a post you learnt from to help others learn too. Your share can be the one that makes it go viral...
  • Letter From God



    My Broken Child,

        I know your thoughts. I hear your cry.

        I know your life isn’t going how you wish it would. I know you are experiencing pain. I know you are looking at me and asking “Why God?” I hear it all.

        I hear it all and when you cry, I cry. When you weep, I weep. When you fall to your knees in anguish, I fall to my knees to pick you up.

        Sadly, this world has sin. And with sin comes pain, death and suffering. With sin comes disease, sadness and bullying. However, although your world may be falling apart, this world does not matter. This is not your world. This world is not meant to be perfect. This world is meant to be about you choosing me. This world is about you, in the midst of a world of sin, keeping your eyes on me.

        I never promised this life would be perfect. I never promised that you would never suffer. But, I did promise that I would be with you every step of the way.

        I know your life is hard, but listen to me. I’m whispering in your ear right now. Keep your eyes on me and you will find joy in the midst of your trials. Through Me, your trials become your testimony and your testimony is a sign of my strength.

        When death steals those you love, and disease takes its toll on you– keep your eyes on Me. Take my hand and I will lift you from the valley and make you stronger than you were before your trial. Take my hand and together we can overcome the temporary pain of this world.

        This world is temporary. Your pain is real, but it will not last. This world does not define your value. You value comes from me your Creator. I gave you a world of free-will so you can authentically choose me. With free-will comes sin, and with sin comes suffering. Do not blame me when I am the only one who can save you. Do not blame me when I am the only One who can give you eternal peace.

        You are loved, cherished and important to me. Let me help you. Come back to me my child. Your suffering is real, but temporary. Your relationship with me brings eternal joy. Trust me in your pain. The flames surrounding you will not consume you when you put your trust in Me.

    Your Father,

    God

  • My Broken Girl - Letter To God

    Dear God,
        You might be busy with your usual routines, I beg you to read this letter this just once. Tears filled in my eyes, I'm writing this letter to you because my beloved one asked me to do. He hope that my pain will get reduce while I write. 

        People might think family is supposed to be our safe heaven. Very often, it's the place were we find the deepest heartbroken. This is the true words experienced by a 25 year old young girl. People will provoke you until they brings out your ugly side then play victim when you go there. This is the exact situation in my life. Life is a thorn bed, everybody know that. But one day I came to know that the thorns are my family.

        Once my family is the world to me, but now no one in my world is ready to accept me because of my love. All of a sudden everything get change. Love is a most powerful word which conquer everything. Love thought me a lot. Pain and sufferings are the most usual things in my life now a days.

        I'm trying to accept the life as it is. But keeps on failing and it is getting worse day by day. Everyday while going to bed I have a hope that everything will come to an end soon. But there's no change till now. Still I'm having some hope that everything will be alright soon. 

        But my inner mind says loudly that "You are such a stupid idiot. You are living with the cruel people. Don't forget that. They won't accept you and your love. For them you are such a bitch, doing it all for physical pleasure. Then why are you staying with them? Just throw it off and go and live your life."

        All the things what I'm hearing broke me inside. Eyes filled with tears going to bed daily. No one will understand my pain. Even a sleep also not working out. Most of the time sleeping is a nightmare to me.

        My daily conversation with my loved one is a medicine for my sadness. "Whenever I think about you unaware of my situation, I started smiling inside and outside. You're the only medicine for my sadness."

        But sometimes I have a fear that will it continue. Same like here also my false hope plays a role. Everyday is not an usual day. Each day gives a new experience of pain and heartbreak. I'm trying my best to survive in this world. I want to live my life with my loved one. The day I'm going to get marry my loved one is a happiest day in my life. Longing for that day.

        Now a days I feeling like dying. Finding a solution to get out from this. Struggling to marry my loved one. Now I didn't have any hope in my life. I'm a lonely broken heart. Sometimes I wish to thrown out me from everyone and get out of this. I wish to end my life. But i can't able do this as well, because I don't want to leave my man all alone. God If you have any wishes for me "please change this situation in a dizzy and  let me marry my man and live a beautiful life or Otherwise kill me." Living in a hell like family is 1000 times better than dying. 

    Your Child,
    The broken girl.
  • Life Quotes



    It is better to be hated for what you are than to be loved for what you are not.

    Every second you have on this planet is precious and it's your responsibility that you're happy. 

    Lighten up, just enjoy life, smile more, laugh more and don't get so worked up about things. 

    Once you choose hope, anything's possible.

    Nobody can predict the future, the idea is to have a firm grasp of the present. 

    Everything has its beauty, but not everyone sees it.

    Don't cry because it over, smile because it happened. 

    The first to apologies is the bravest.
    The first to forgive is the strongest. 
    The first to forget is the happiest.

    Go confidently in the direction of your dreams!
    Live the life you've imagined.

    The only impossible journey is the one you never begin.

    Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.

    Very little is needed to make a happy life;
    It is all within yourself, in your way of thinking.

    Life is simple, But we insist on making it complicated.

    We do not remember days, we remember moments.

    Life is a mirror, and will reflect back to the thinker what he thinks into it.  

    If you love life, don't waste time, for time is what life is made up of.

    Life isn't a matter of milestone, but moments.

    What we think determines what happens to us, so if we want to change our lives,
    we need to stretch our minds.

    Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.

    The two  most important days in your life are 
    the day your are born and the day you find out why.

    Your time is limited, so don't waste in living someone else's life.

    Life is like a camera.
    Focus on what's important.
    Capture the good times. and if things don't work out, just take another shot.

    Though no one can go back and make a brand-new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand-new ending.


  • In my life. I've lived, I've loved, I've lost, I've missed, I've trusted, I've hurt, I've made mistakes, most of all, I've learned...

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